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Core Teaching
Unobserved emotion rules human behaviour
more powerfully than thought. It moves through us like an invisible current —
shaping tone, decision, even destiny — while we remain unaware of its grip.
Suppressed emotion festers in the body; indulged emotion becomes addiction.
Awareness alone transforms it. To
feel something consciously is very different from reacting to it blindly. When
you bring attention to anger, fear, jealousy, or sadness, you shift from being
the emotion to being the space that feels it. You allow it to unfold without
story, without justification. That simple act of recognition begins to dissolve
the energy trapped inside it. Emotion is never the enemy; unconsciousness is.
The moment emotion is seen without resistance, it loses its power to rule you
and becomes fuel for understanding.
Practical
Exercise
Today, whenever you sense a strong
emotion arise — perhaps tension in the chest, a tightening jaw, or a quickening
heartbeat — stop and breathe once deeply. Then bring all your awareness to the
raw sensation in the body. Don’t translate it into a narrative: not “I’m angry
because…” or “I shouldn’t feel this.” Just feel it. Notice its texture — heavy
or light, hot or cold, moving or still. Let it expand until it no longer feels
personal. If
you can stay with it for even thirty seconds without mental commentary, you
will sense a subtle peace emerging beneath the emotion. This is the awareness
that redeems it.
Aim: To transform emotion by feeling it directly rather
than feeding it mentally.
Life Example
Across the modern world, entire
communities and nations act from unhealed emotional pain. Fear of difference
becomes hatred; humiliation becomes revenge. In the past few decades, we’ve
seen movements fueled by anger that began as cries for justice but descended
into cycles of retaliation. Humanity still mistakes emotional intensity for
strength. Yet true strength is calm presence in the midst of feeling — the
power to respond rather than react. Every war, whether between individuals or
nations, is born from unconscious emotion. Peace begins with one person daring
to feel consciously instead of striking back.
Universal
Teaching
The Sufi poet Rumi wrote, “The wound is
where the light enters you.” When pain is faced with awareness rather than
denial, it opens a doorway to transformation. The very energy that once caused
suffering becomes the means through which awakening happens. This is the paradox
of presence: what you accept completely no longer has power over you. Awareness
does not suppress emotion; it redeems it by bathing it in light.
Key Points to
Remember
– Emotion becomes suffering only when it
is resisted or justified.
– Conscious feeling transforms pain into
wisdom.
– Every collective conflict mirrors
unhealed emotion in individuals.
– What you face in awareness cannot
control you.
– Presence is the fire that burns
emotion clean.